Why?

I really want to know why the beautiful moments and conversations in life always happen when you are supposed to be doing something else? Then, when you actually have time, nothing is going on, no one is free, no one wants to talk...
The most beautiful conversations happen when I am supposed to be doing homework. I have the best fun with my siblings when I should be getting ready to leave. And people call me on the phone to talk when I am at work. Kinda like it never rains, but it pours!
Is there some sort of magic equilibrium that I have yet to find, where you can balance out everything that needs to be done, but still be able to drop everything to spend time on what really counts in life?
Or maybe it is just God tugging on my heart and telling me that I need to be finding all my joy in Him alone, regardless.